Can Discernment Counseling Help You and Your Spouse? Help with the Divorce Decision Should you stay or should you go?  In many cases, clients come to couple’s therapy with that question in mind.  Often, one person wants to continue in the relationship while the other one is ready to move on.  Can couples therapy be...Read More

You And Your Spouse Can Mediate! One of the biggest misconceptions about mediation is that it is for couples who are “getting along”.  I have been a mediator for over a decade and most of the couples that I work with are not “getting along”.  In almost all divorce cases there is a certain level of...Read More

Couples come to therapy for several reasons, but more than 95 percent of my clients list poor communication as a significant problem in their relationship. Here are five recommendations for improving communication: 1. Find a good time to talk. Frequently a client will start a conversation with their partner when the partner is tired, anger...Read More